I just got back from a winter retreat with with 19 teenagers and 6 adults. This is nothing new. I have been taking teenagers to winter camp for 20 years. Each year, I would take a group of teenagers hoping to get a non-christian or two to attend. This year was different. This year 18 of our teens were unchurch, non-Christian teenagers. We take our teens to Camp Orchard Hill in Dallas, PA because COH understands what matters most and does an excellent job at accepting our teens where they are at and for who they are.
I gotta tell you what an awesome time we had. It was refreshing and draining all at once. It was refreshing to be around non-christian teenagers. After working with teenagers for 20 years I have found non-Christian teenagers to be more honest, more open, and more real than christian teens. It was draining because I had to be on my toes at all times. Their ideas, comments, language, desires, etc were not always comfortable to see, hear or experience. Nevertheless, I would not have missed any moment of the weekend.
There was one thing that disappointed me. It was apparent that our group was seen as the "different" group by some of the church youth groups. There was very little interaction from the church youth groups. Why did it come across like we were different? Perhaps it was our "Cig Mobile" (everyone had to make a cardboard sled and compete in a race. Ours had cigarettes on it and our mottos were 'we smoke the competition' and 'come take a drag with us'). Perhaps it was the comment from a youth leader who meant well but her comment that it was a good thing what we were doing came across more like were were saving whales then building relationships. Perhaps it was the youth leader who was afraid when one of our guys sat next to one of his girls at the session so he squished in between the two of them where they wasn't even a seat for him to sit in. Maybe it happened and I didnt see it but i was not aware of one group that was on their knees praying for our group and asking God to give them ways to reach out and minister to our teens.
Wasn't it Jesus who said he came not for the healthy but for the sick? Wasn't it Jesus was criticized for hanging out with the less fortunate? Wasn't it Jesus who came that everyone might have life - the downcast and the trodden too? Wasn't it Jesus who healed the leper by not just speaking to him but touching him too? Wasn't it Jesus who ate with the down and out of his day?
Have you ever noticed that many Christians feel more comfortable around fellow believers than they do the lost? Have you ever noticed it is easier to place money in an offering plate than into the hand of someone in need? Have you ever noticed that it is easier to pray "Thy will be done" than to just do His will? Have you ever noticed it is easier to memorize James 1:27 than to just do it?
As believers who have the hope of Jesus Christ, why are we so uncomfortable in letting our hope ring loud and clear?
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Chuck
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